Alphabet Dates!

I recently stumbled upon the idea of ABC Dates! This is basically going on 26 dates (once a week, once a month, whatever you can afford) and doing fun things that start with one letter per date. What a fun way to keep your married life exciting…not just “dinner and a movie” night each time you finally get a babysitter for the kiddos! You and your spouse can either take turns planning ideas for each letter, or sit down and plan out each letter together. Plan the whole alphabet and save up for each date, or just be sporadic and decide what you’ll do on the day-of. You get bonus points for doing “double-letter” dates, like “Picnic in the Park” or “Donuts for Dessert” or “Limo ride to Lunch”….you get the idea!

I have compiled a list of some ideas for each letter. Of course there are SO many more ideas out there, but here are some basics. You could also do a version of ABC Dates where you eat different foods associated for each letter, instead of doing activities that start with the letter. Whatever you choose to do, make sure to have a ton of fun with your spouse and create special memories.

Take a camera with you on each of your dates and take photos of your activities. When you’ve completed the whole alphabet, make an ABC Photo book!

This list covers all sorts of dates: cheap to pricey, relaxed and romantic to adventurous and extreme, seasonal ideas, local ideas (Seattle area), and ideas for other parts of the country. (Most of these ideas you can use in Seattle though!)

A: Aquarium, Art Museum (or Art Gallery), Amusement Park (get your picture taken in a silly booth or on a roller coaster!), Arcade, Antique Shop

B: Baseball/Basketball game (professional or at a local school), Bowling, Boat Ride, Browse at a Bookstore, Brunch (make sure to get a fancy mimosa with that yummy brunch!), Build-a-Bear together, visit a Beer Brewery or a Beer Garden, Bubble Bath for 2, walk across a Bridge, Botanical Garden, Batting Cage, BINGO (at your local casino or Bingo hall), Bocce Ball in the yard, Bike Ride, Build a Sandcastle on the Beach, stay at a Bed & Breakfast, Bungee Jumping, Bakery, Brazilian Restaurant

C: Comedy Club, Clogging Class, Cooking Class (or Cook together at home), do a Craft together, Car Show, embrace your Cheesiness at a Carnival or Circus, Coffee Date, Corn Maze, Concert (local concerts are a great alternative if you can’t afford concert tickets to a famous band), Casino, Cheese Sampling, Chocolate Factory (there are a couple great ones in Seattle!), Camping (skip rocks and keep your drinks Chilled in the Creek), and if you live by a farm…there’s always Cow-Tipping!

D: Donut Dessert Date, Drinks & Dancing, play Darts at a Dive Bar, Disneyland, feed Ducks, Ride the Ducks (Seattle), Dinner Cruise, Drive-In Movie

E: Exercise class (yoga, pilates, etc.), “Pick-an-Envelope” (fill 3 envelopes with ideas and let your spouse choose a sealed envelope), ride an Elevator to the top floor of a skyscraper and kiss all the way up!

F: Foreign Foods, Fondue for 2, Fireworks Show, Ferry Ride, Flea Market, Farmer’s Market, Frisbee, Fishing, pick Fruit at a local Farm/Orchard

G: Golf (or driving range), Game night (board games, cards, dice), Garage Sales (make sure to go to the ritzy neighborhoods!), Gardening, Go-Karts, Geocaching, Grape-Stomping, Glass-Blowing, Glass Museum (Tacoma)

H: Hiking, Happy Hour, Hayride, Horseback Riding (or take lessons), get a room at the Holiday Inn (or other Hotel) for the night, Hot-Air Balloon, Helicopter Ride, Hookah Lounge, Horse-Drawn Carriage, Haunted House, Hat Shop (try on all the silly hats and take pictures, if permitted)

I: Ice-Skating, Ice-Cream Shop, Improv Theatre, IMAX Movie, IKEA

J: Jazz Club, do a Jigsaw Puzzle, Jogging, Jump on trampolines, Jet-Ski, eat Jamaican Jerk Chicken (yum!)

K: Karaoke, Fly a Kite, Kayaking (there are many places that will rent you a kayak by the hour)

L: Library, Laser Tag, Limo Ride to Lunch, Luau and Limbo, Lingerie shopping

M: Movie Marathon, attend a Musical, Mini-Golf, Museums (many offer a free day every month), Mountain Climbing, Mountain Biking, Medieval Faire, eat a Moroccan Meal (with your hands!), Massages (professional, or give one to each other), Murder Mystery Dinner

N: Nature Walk, NASA Space Center, Naked anything (Naked Nintendo, Naked Cooking…whatever!)
(Genesis 2:24-25) “And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and they were not ashamed.” (New King James Version)

O: Orchestra, Opera, Open-Houses (dress in your smartest attire and go look at houses together…tell what you love and dislike about each house), Ocean

P: Paintball, Picnic in the Park (or if it’s raining, Picnic in the Park wearing Ponchos!), Picnic indoors or in your backyard, Parade, Play Pool in a Pub, Para-Sailing, Pizza (ask them to cut the pizza into a heart shape), Piano Bar, Playground, Pool Hall, go to a Play, Palm Readings, Psychics, Paint-your-own-Pottery

Q: 20 Questions (whether you’ve been together 3 months or 3 years, ask questions that will still make you learn something fun or new about your spouse), have a “Quickie”, play “Quidditch”…yeah yeah yeah…I know that’s not possible unless you can fly…but “Q” is a hard letter! 🙂
**Here are a few sample questions for “20 Questions” – If you could have picked your own name, what would it be? Favorite cartoon character? What was your favorite toy when you were little? If you could have a weird, unusual pet, what would it be and why would you have that pet? What would you do if you were invisible for a day?

R: Roller Skating, Rock Climbing, Rafting, shooting at a Rifle Range

S: Sporting event, Snorkeling, Swimming, Stargazing (outside or at a planetarium), Surfing, Sailing, Street Fair, Sledding, Spa day, Skydiving (indoor or outdoor), Snowboarding, Skiing, watching the Sunrise or Sunset

T: Test-Drive a fun sports car, Rent a Tandem Bike, Train Ride, play Twister, Trapeze School (available at Teatro Zinzanni), Tea-Tasting, play the “Tourist” in your own city: go on tours, sightsee and take pictures of the things you take advantage of every day.

U: Try a Unicycle, (or a Ukelele), visit a local University and attend one of their classes or events

V: Volunteer (Rescue Mission, Soup Kitchen, Elderly Home, etc), Volleyball, Video Games, Visit a Vineyard

W: Wine-Tasting at a local Winery, Window Shopping, Wrestling Match, Wishing (throw pennies into a fountain together), Water Park, Wax Museum (Madam Toussad’s), Whale-Watching (up in the islands), Wake-Boarding, Water-Skiing, WII

X: Xerox your butts (or hands…whatever), X-Box

Y: Yosemite/Yellowstone National Parks, go to your local YMCA for some fun activities, go to the Yankee Candle Company and take in all the good smells

Z: Zoo, Zip-Lining, Zumba Class

I hope you enjoyed this list and maybe even use some of these ideas!
If nothing else, just share a plate of Spaghetti with your spouse one night after the kids are in bed! 🙂

March 7, 2012. Married Life.


  1. Christina replied:

    This is awesome!! We are totally going to do this!

  2. Rudy's Lady replied:

    I LOVE this idea!

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