23 Things That I Want Jack To Know

1 Samuel 1:27 – “I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of Him.”

There are so many good “Mommy Moments.” Some of these include:

  • Looking at Jack and realizing how lucky I am and what a blessing he is in my life.
  • When I get hugs and kisses and the sweetest giggles from too many tickles.
  • Getting to watch Jack grow and thank God for his health and cherish the milestones that he reaches everyday.
  • When I cuddle him on the rocking chair every night before bed and we say our prayer and sing our songs.

Jack is only two years old, but he’s growing up so fast. It makes me happy and sad at the same time. Happy that he’s learning and thriving, but not so happy that I can’t just push the “pause” button and enjoy each of his stages a little longer. He makes me laugh everyday. He is handsome, smart, funny, and cute. Even though my living room looks like Toys ‘R Us and I’m currently drowning in a sea of Buzz Lightyears, Tow-Maters, and fruit snacks, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I love Jack so much. There is nothing in this world I would not do for him. I will kiss his ow-ies and wipe his tears. I will sing silly songs, read him books, feed him healthy food, teach him all of the important things of life, and I will protect him and fight for him and give up my life for him. As he grows up and gains more independence, I know it will get harder for me to let him go…and I’m absolutely positive that when he gets on the big yellow bus for his first day of kindergarten, I will cry.

As you grow up Jack, here are some things I want you to know:

  1. When I look at you, I see my heart walking around outside of my body. I never imagined that I had this much love to give until I had you. You taught me that my heart and my capacity to love is not fixed, it grows and grows and grows.
  2. Enjoy your childhood. You will be an adult soon enough, with too many responsibilities.
  3. The world is full of superficial values, peer pressure, materialism, and bullying. Don’t buy into it. Family, Love, and Jesus are always true.
  4. Never be ashamed of being smart or nerdy, having freckles or glasses, or loving school. Smart never goes out of style. It stays with you as you grow, and it will lead you down the most successful paths.
  5. You don’t have to follow all of the trends. Be confident going against the grain. Accept yourself for who you are. You are one-of-a-kind and that’s what makes you amazing. We are all different. God made you just how he wanted you, and God doesn’t make mistakes.
  6. Accept others for who they are. In a world where bullying is so popular with our youth, accept everyone’s differences. Preps, punks, popular, nerds, jocks…it doesn’t matter.
  7. Make a few true close friends. True friends are invaluable. They are loyal and will stick with you through good times and bad, happy or sad. Some friends come and go, but true friends will be with you always. Friends forever, through whatever.
  8. Give thanks to God for everything. Especially when you feel down, praise God. There is a reason for everything, and God has a special plan for you.
  9. Choose your role-models carefully.
  10. Read everyday. Reading expands your knowledge and vocabulary, and lets your imagination run wild.
  11. Read your Bible every day too. It keeps you connected to God and reminds you how to stay on the narrow path.
  12. Explore the outdoors. Go outside, breathe the fresh air. Ride bikes, build forts, skip, hop, run, climb.
  13. See the world. Travel, travel, travel. Experience new cultures, foods, and people. Open your heart to all of your new experiences and learn something from each one. Bon Voyage.
  14. Love the Earth. Recycle, reduce, reuse. Going “green” isn’t a trend. It’s a way of life we should all adopt.
  15. Always take care of your health. Your body is a temple. Make healthy lifestyle choices to take care of your physical, mental, social, emotional, and spiritual well being. This has a huge impact on your quality of life and your happiness.
  16. Have confidence in yourself. Have a strong hand-shake and make eye-contact with people. Be friendly, trustworthy, and honest.
  17. Love with all your heart. Show love to everyone. Love is universal.
  18. It’s okay to cry. Crying is a natural emotional response to feelings. Everyone cries. Men cry. Women cry. Children cry.
  19. Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself and don’t be discouraged by your mistakes. Let it inspire and motivate you to do better next time. Always be proud of who you are.
  20. Try to always make the right choices, not the easiest ones. Have the courage to lead, not follow. Dream bigger than most others think is possible.
  21. Find your passion. Keep looking and searching, never stop.
  22. You will be my son forever. There is an old saying that says “A son is a son till he takes a wife…” As you grow, I pray that our bond stays strong enough to break any truth this saying might hold.
  23. Wherever you are in life, you can come home. I will be here – always.

February 17, 2012. Jack. 3 comments.

A Hot Pink Zebra Baby Shower!

My little cousin is having a baby girl! She’s due any day now, and she asked me to help with her baby shower a couple weeks ago. I made the cake and cupcakes to go along with her hot pink and zebra theme. Here’s how they turned out:

The baby’s name is going to be Kayliana:

The baby shower turned out really cute. Here are some pictures:

Congratulations Brittney! 🙂

 

February 16, 2012. Baking Adventures, Parties. Leave a comment.

Cookie Day 2011

Every year in our family we have an annual “Cookie Day” – usually the weekend before Christmas. My sister, some of my cousins, and myself all get together at my mom’s house on a Friday night and have a sleepover. On that night, we bake and decorate sugar cookies to get us all in the spirit. Then we wake up early Saturday morning and bake from sunrise to sundown! We bake over a thousand Christmas cookies and then at the end of the night we divide them all up onto several platters and each of us take a tray of cookies home and take some extras to give away. We try to bake cookies that have splashes of red and green in them, to give the trays some Christmas colors…otherwise the trays would just be all that drab brown cookie shade! This year we made approximately 1,000 cookies, that’s over 83 dozen cookies of all different flavors, shapes, and sizes.

Here’s our ingredient table with all of our chips, extracts, and other add-ins:

This year was Jack’s first year to get to actively participate in “Sugar Cookie Night” – he got to decorate a cookie all by himself, and boy was he happy about it! 🙂

Each of us girls have some “set” cookies that we make every year, our own signature Cookie Day Cookies. And then we each have some that we switch up each year. All year long we clip and save recipes that we think would be fun to try on Cookie Day. Here are a couple random shots of Holly and Gelly working on their creations:

When we are all finished baking and the last cookie tray has come out of the oven and put onto the official cookie table (we actually have had to expand to 2 tables to fit all of our cookies – and sometimes even the seats of the chairs!) we do the official “cookie count” to see how many we made that year. Nobody is allowed to eat any cookies until the count has been completed. Throughout the day, the only cookies that people get to “taste-test” are the cookies that have somehow gotten broken or crumbled, or otherwise ruined! We girls take our cookies seriously! haha 🙂

After we count the cookies, we take our pictures of the table and then start loading up the trays – usually with about 2 of each kind of cookie. We always have so many trays of cookies, sometimes it’s hard to find enough families to give them to! But no matter what, they all get eaten by the time the week’s over! 🙂

This table is always the first table that we fill up:

Now time to assemble the trays and pass them out!

Cookie Day 2011 is complete! We can’t wait ’til next Christmas! Ho Ho Ho!

Just for giggles, here are our pictures from the previous two years, 2009 and 2010:

February 16, 2012. Baking Adventures, Holidays. Leave a comment.

Gingerbread House Decorating Party

So it’s February now and I’m finally sitting down and getting caught up on my blog…on stuff from December! Oh wow…I really don’t have any good excuses. But I’m glad that I’m back on board now.

I had a gingerbread party at my house and it was a smashing success. First of all, my cousin was SUCH a huge help to me. I couldn’t afford to go out and buy a pre-baked gingerbread house for each of my guests, so she came over a couple days before the party and helped me bake, cut, and assemble 8 houses, plus 4 small ones for the children. This was the first time that either of us had made gingerbread before, and it was a lot of fun and tasty too. Overall, a good experience. But to be honest, next year I will be using the pre-baked ones. I went to the after-Christmas sales and snatched up 8 of them, for only $3 each. Nobody eats them anyway, they’re just for decoration…so who cares if they’re stale? 😉

Jack wanted to help too, of course:

And when we were done, we had 8 of these:

On the day of the party, I set up the table with each place setting having a house, a plastic wine glass, and a mini personal bottle of Martinelli’s Sparkling Cider. All of the candies and frostings were in the middle of the table.

Here’s how the kids’ table looked:

And of course, we had to have some good snacks to counteract all of the candy that would surely be making its way into our mouths…! The gingerbread shaped sandwiches were pb&j for the kids. The bowl in the middle is a delicious dip of cream cheese with Trader Joe’s Sweet Chili Sauce poured over the top. It’s PERFECT with pita chips…a crowd favorite!

Everyone had a fun time decorating their gingerbread houses and afterward, I took a picture of each person holding their completed house.

After everyone was done decorating, we cleared off the table and played some BINGO! I had wrapped up some small Christmas-y prizes and played Bingo using the leftover candies as markers. Everyone got to take home a decorated house and some prizes. It was a wonderful evening!

February 15, 2012. Baking Adventures, Food, Holidays, Parties. Leave a comment.

Jack’s 2nd Birthday Party – Sesame Street Style!

I’m a little late writing this post…okay I’m a LOT late writing this post. Jack turned 2 in November. But I’m using the holidays as my excuse for being so busy that I’m just now getting back to my blog! 🙂

When I threw Jack’s very first birthday party back in 2010 I was SO disappointed with how it turned out. I was afraid that nobody would ever want to come to another party that I threw because it was so horrible. The room that I rented turned out to be so small that everyone was packed in there like sardines, nobody could see what was going on, what Jack was doing, etc. All in all, I was disappointed. So I was determined to make his second birthday a blast – to redeem myself as a party-thrower, and to make sure that Jack had some good pictures to look at later on in life.

I planned for a few months in advance, planning what treats I would make and what the decor and theme would look like. I googled “Sesame Street party ideas” and found a whole slew of great things! Since I was on a budget, I decided that I was going to make many of the decorations myself, and I love baking so of course I planned on making all of the cakes and sweets. For the food (it was a lunch party) I bought all sorts of sandwich ingredients and had a make-your-own-sandwich bar, and some chips with 7-layer dip.

Here is how the main table ended up looking:

So here’s the rundown: I bought the Sesame Street plates, napkins, and cups at Dollar Tree…along with the red plasticware, the Elmo balloons, and the supplies I needed to make the other decorations. That giant Elmo on the wall behind the table is made out of a metallic door cover that I found at Dollar Tree. It was basically just a huge rectangle of red and I found a picture of Elmo online, printed it out, made a copy onto an overhead transparency sheet and then using my overhead projector I projected the image onto the wall and traced it out onto the door cover. Then I cut it out, added the facial features (made of construction paper) and voila! A giant Elmo wall mural for one dollar! I actually also bought a green door cover and I was going to make a giant Oscar the Grouch, but it was too much work. That Elmo was harder than I expected because when I shined the image onto it using the projector, the light reflected off of the metallic-ness of it. I had to trace the image initially onto a piece of brown mailing paper, cut that out, and then trace it onto the red stuff. Blah. So needless to say, I didn’t make the Oscar one.

For the “Happy Birthday Jack” banner on the wall, I went to Walmart and got free paint chip samples. They have a huge section and there is one brand that makes their samples bigger than all the others (I forget which brand it is right now), so I grabbed the large ones in all of the basic colors, to match the Sesame Street theme. Then I just cut out the letters and used double-sided tape to hang them onto a ribbon. Easy-peasy…and free! Also, if you look around Elmo, you will see a bunch of little pictures all over the wall. I put those all over the room (as you’ll see in the next pictures). I went to Goodwill and bought a couple of old 79 cent Sesame Street books and just cut out all of the pictures and stuck them on the walls. Just to add some pops of color and characters.

Two of my favorite ideas were the fruit platter and vegetable platter – both made to look like Elmo’s face. For the fruit platter I used strawberries and raspberries for the face, blackberries for the mouth and eyeballs, and mandarin oranges for the nose. The whites of the eyes is a fruit dip (cream cheese and marshmallow creme). For the veggie platter I used red pepper and baby tomatoes for the face, black olives for the mouth and eyeballs, and carrots for the nose. The white is ranch dip. Then just for fun, I added a bucket of grapes, because I happened to find a little Elmo bucket at Goodwill for a buck, and it matched the theme.

I made a balloon face for each of the characters, and I thought they were a perfect addition to the main table. This was easy, I basically just cut the facial features out of construction paper, and placed the parts for each character in a ziplock baggie with the corresponding balloon. Then on the day of the party I just had to blow the balloons up and tape the face pieces on.

This picture (above) just shows more of the little Sesame Street pictures that I put on the walls, from the Goodwill books.

Another thing that I did was I made “footprints” of Elmo, Cookie Monster, and Big Bird. I had them leading up to the door, as if the monsters had already arrived! These were just made of colored paper and taped to the ground. The custom Sesame Street signs (we had “welcome”, “Jack Street”, “Sandwich Bar”, “Happy Birthday”, and a few more that you can see in the pictures) were made by my husband using the computer program GIMP. He downloaded the official Sesame Street font (for free on the web) and then made whatever signs I wanted him to make! 🙂

For the sweets & treats, I made two large cakes and a batch of cupcakes. The two cakes were of Elmo and Cookie Monster and the cupcakes were mini Oscar-the-Grouches. The crinkly tinsel stuff under each cake is from Dollar Tree. Here’s how they turned out:

For drinks, I had bottles of juice, but I also made personalized water bottles. I made them on my computer with my favorite program, Scrapbook Factory.

Overall, I was very happy with Jack’s second birthday party. I rented a MUCH bigger room, so everyone had ample space to roam about. Jack opened his presents in the middle of the room so that everyone could see everything, and everyone got full from all the food. It was great, and Jack made out like a bandit. Here’s a picture of some of his loot:

And after the party, Jack was pooped out!

February 15, 2012. Jack, Parties. Leave a comment.